VIP’s are not typically any more attractive, smarter, younger, athletic, nor more financially secure than you are. Being a VIP does not necessitate these characteristics. Attractive men often have just as many difficulties socially as the average Joe. Being a VIP is about attitude, confidence, and knowledge. Ever see this average looking Joe with beautiful women around him? He acts the part and therefore people treat him the way he presents himself. If that type of man can become a VIP, surely most others can also.